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Local Non-Profit Embarks on Project to Renovate Orphanage in Liberia

Aletha’s Legacy sets off for Liberia on November 18 to take children’s holiday gifts and oversee the first phase of renovations currently underway at the Children’s Future Program and Orphanage, home to 53 children in the rural town of Kakata, approximately 45 miles from the capital city of Monrovia.

Many in our community know local resident, philanthropist and founder of Aletha’s Legacy, Zhalman Harris, better behind the camera and through the Rotary Club of Destin who says, “Giving for a good cause should have no boundaries.” Board of Directors member Christie Solomon elaborates, “Improving the educational opportunities for these kids not only helps Africa, but the world as a whole.”

Many children were orphaned in Liberia during the Ebola virus epidemic from 2014-15. The 53 orphans, who range in age from 4-17 years of age, are cared for by Principal Christiana Blamo and other teachers at the Children’s Future Program and Orphanage. Principal Christiana says, “Here, we have so many needs, especially for the school. The two buildings are leaking during the rainy season, and we have to patch the roof with tin.” Food, clothing and school materials (i.e., textbooks) are items high on Principal Christiana’s prioritized list of needs for the children.

One of the results of the 14-year civil war that ravaged the country and the more recent Ebola virus epidemic was that approximately 40% of primary school students ended up being three years older than the appropriate age for their grade. UNICEF notes that access to clean water and lack of functioning bathroom facilities further impact the quality of early education for children in Liberia.

Due to the generosity of corporate sponsors such as Setco Services, Hand Arendall Harrison Sale, Beltone of Northwest Florida, Velocity Automotive Solutions, Liberian Telecommunications Corporation and individual donors such as Joan and Stephen Carter, Jim and Shawn Springfield and others, Aletha’s Legacy raised $113,000 U.S. dollars in donations between June and September 2021.

The first phase of renovations, which these donations supported, will include a new roof to keep the children, their rooms and belongings dry during rainy season, as well as new, modernized bathroom facilities and a new kitchen with an indoor mess hall for eating.
The capital budget for the second phase of renovations is $50,000 U.S. dollars. Once funded, these renovations will include the installation of windows, doors, electrical work and a water tower, as well as painting, tiling and installation of a new generator. To learn more or find out how you or your business can support the renovation of the orphanage, email Zhalman Harris at zhalman@alethaslegacy.org or call (612) 616-0143.

Aletha’s Legacy is a 501(c)3 non-profit founded by Zhalman, a Liberian refugee, to honor his mother, Aletha, who lost her life and their home during the 14-year civil war that ravaged their country in West Africa. Through mission trips, Aletha’s Legacy improves under-privileged children’s lives in his home country by renovating schools and orphanages, improving the quality of education, and providing access to nutrition at school. For further information, visit alethaslegacy.org, email info@alethaslegacy.org or call (612) 616-0143. See the latest updates on facebook.com/alethaslegacy, instagram.com/alethaslegacyinc, and https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdwm30rllzf6PYl_jxm99ug. To read Zhalman’s story and how Aletha’s Legacy got started, visit MyDestinLife.com, June 2020 issue.

Full Disclosure! Buyers and Sellers, Listen Up!

Gail PeltoBy Gail Pelto

Florida case law provides that, with some exceptions, a home seller must disclose any facts or conditions about the property that have a substantial impact on its value or desirability, and that others cannot easily see for themselves.

In order to assist sellers, the Florida Association of Realtors provides a standardized form for the sellers to complete that can be provided to potential buyers for their review. As a buyer, you should scrutinize this form and make sure to ask questions about anything on that form that you don’t understand or for which you need or want more clarification. The categories on this form include information about plumbing, flood, structural issues, pest infestations, electrical issues, mold, etc. These items can be current or have been in the past and remedied. NOTE: if there was an issue in the past and remedied, find out how it was remedied. For example: If mold had been an issue, was it simply sprayed with bleach or did a remediation company actually remediate the problem? (I read a disclosure about this recently which simply stated “mold repaired.” Ask questions.

Some legal experts say sellers can make disclosures either written or verbally, with a few exceptions. Florida law doesn’t require them to be in writing. HOWEVER, if you, as a seller, do make only oral disclosures, you might have a difficult time proving that you made them – this could be a problem if the buyer finds problems AFTER purchasing the property. So, it’s best that you disclose in writing.

As a Seller, if you find out about more issues after you’ve completed your initial disclosures form, MAKE SURE you update them prior to you or your agent giving them to a potential buyer. Also note that even If you are selling your home “As Is,” you still need to disclose.
A past client I worked with did not disclose a material defect and was later sued by the buyer. Do not take property disclosures lightly. As a seller, make sure they are complete and current. As a buyer, make sure you read them and understand them and, if necessary, question them.

Have questions about this or any other home buying or selling issue? Then call me at 850-374-0454 or email to Gail.Pelto@kw.com. As always, I’m here to help.

Gail Pelto is a Board Member with The Rotary Club and the Mattie Kelly Arts Foundation—and yes, a powerful, full-time real estate agent with Keller Williams Realty Success Realty. Call her with any real estate questions you have, and she’ll guide you in the right direction. Call her direct at 850-374-0454 or email to Gail.Pelto@kw.com. Want to know what the value of your property is today? Go to www.DestinAgent.com.

Studio 237 Music Lessons: Recital Celebration

By Raymond Cyr

Studio 237 Recital PictureThe month of December is the celebration of the ending of a year. The pleasure for a music student is the completion of their song which they have been preparing for recital. This is also the time when the entire family will applaud them and their musical accomplishments.
The power of music has a very unusual ability to bring people together- whether it is singing, dancing, or attending a concert. A recital brings families together be it parents, grandparents, or relatives who support those with a musical interest. The experience that a child might recognize at a recital is the knowledge that they have, through the power of music, brought people together.

The power of music draws together a community of those who appreciate the arts and the art of music. It allows everyone to hear someone’s expression of music which in turn releases a freedom of expression and stirs up artistic qualities. It is a time of acknowledging and rewarding a student for their accomplishment.

Saturday, December 11, the community is invited to join the families of the Studio 237 Music School students as they share their children’s musical hearts and talent with our community. Two recitals will be held, Saturday at 10:30 a.m. and also at 2:00 p.m., located in Seagrove Beach at the Seagrove Baptist Church, 4915 E. County Hwy 30A. Each recital will last about one hour. The recitals have no admission cost.

Studio 237 Music School is located in Santa Rosa Beach, FL. Private music lessons are taught to students of all ages (5 and up). For more information contact Lisa or Ray Cyr at 850-231-3199, email: studio237dawson@gmail.com, and visit their website at Studio237Music.com.

Mitch Malloy’s Van Halen Experience Rocks Mattie Kelly Arts Village

By Will Estell

If you’re a hard rock fan living anywhere along Northwest Florida’s Gulf Coast, I hope you were able to make it out to the spectacular show that took place October 9th at Mattie Kelly Arts Foundation’s arts village in Destin. What made this particular concert so iconic, was that not only was it the first live performance of Mitch Malloy’s Van Halen Experience, but moreover the singer himself now calls Destin home.

Though Mitch Malloy is relatively new to the Destin area, he is certainly no stranger to the rock side of the equation. When I asked Mitch to share a little about his journey into the world of music he had this to say, “I was born in Dickinson, North Dakota, and began singing in church and school plays when I was about six years old. I was the youngest of six children, and always had a passion for music. I began playing guitar at about twelve. I went to music school in Seattle, and then hit the road to New York, finally landing in Nashville to chase the dream.”

In addition to putting out multiple solo albums and two Billboard hits, Mitch has worked with a smorgasbord of artists, ranging from Kenny Loggins to Taylor Swift to country sensation Craig Morgan. His work producing and engineering has paired him with some of the best songwriters in the business, even beyond his own award-winning songwriter. After being signed to Warner Chappell and Chrysalis Music, Mitch later launched his own publishing company to control his work, once his name became well recognized within the industry.

As for the history leading to Mitch assembling the all-star musicians that made up Mitch Malloy’s Van Halen Experience last month in Destin, it goes something like this: In the mid-90s, Mitch was invited to take the lead vocals position for Van Halen, after Sammy Hagar left the group. As intriguing as the offer, and subsequent time he spent with the late great Eddie Van Halen was, Mitch decided that the turmoil and conflict that surrounded the band at the time, just didn’t make the position a good fit for him at the time. This lead him to literally turn down what almost any rock vocalist would surely see as the once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to be at the helm of what was arguably one of the greatest hard rock bands of all time.

The concert was a huge community hit, selling over 50 VIP tables alone and pulling in major sponsorships from everyone from Step One Automotive to Destin Plastic Surgery to restaurant, real estate, beer, liquor and beverage sponsors. The concert also went a long way in showing just what the possibilities are for larger concerts and events at Mattie Kelly Arts Foundation’s concert venue, an organization I’m privileged to serve on the board of myself as does Bay Life publisher.

When I asked Mitch about the opportunity to live where we do and be a part of this cool coastal culture and lifestyle, he had this to say, “You know, it’s beautiful and the area’s great, but it’s also like you and I have talked about before, the people are just so friendly, and real and accommodating. Everyone seems so genuinely nice here. It’s a melting pot of happy people.” All true—having moved to Destin myself roughly four years ago, I’m quick to point out that most people would find it difficult to be unhappy living in such a place.
Currently Mitch is touring with Great White and performing solo shows when not touring. Who knows, there just may be another opportunity to catch Mitch Malloy’s Van Halen Experience in the future. Don’t miss it!

Will Estell is a 25-year veteran writer turned editor, with hundreds of published articles in various publications, as well as numerous additional online articles in an array of genres. He’s been instrumental in founding eleven magazine titles.

Art Classes Abound Around the Bay! December 2021

Artful Things
On Going Classes
Rosalyn O’grady – Oil Or Acrylics
Tuesday mornings 10 a.m. – noon, $20 per session plus supplies – Bring a photo to paint from or paint from a still life set-up. Masks required. Email Roslyn to reserve your space or for more details. ogradytr@cox.net. www.RosalynOgrady.com
Theresia Mcinnis-Watercolor Techniques
Tuesday afternoons. 12:45 pm- 3:45 pm. $27.50 plus supplies. Zoom available. Three-hour class. Learn or improve on various techniques including controlled pour & texturing. Reference picture provided. www.TheresiaMcInnis.com. 850-729-2600.
Charlotte Arnold-Open Studio with Live Model
Wednesday mornings 10:30- 1:30 pm. Uninstructed- $15. limited to 6 seats. Bring your own supplies- your medium and an easel. 850-729-2600.
MJ Montgomery- Anime and Drawing Basics
Wednesday afternoons: 3:30 – 4:30 pm. $10. Suggested ages, 10 to 110! Learn the basics of character design, shadowing, eyes and hands. Limited seating. Text seating request to: 505-690-3945.
MJ MONTGOMERY- Semi Private DRAWING BASICS
Thursday afternoons: 3:30 – 4:30 pm. $20. Suggested ages, 10 to 110! Learn the basics of drawing and build your skills to transfer to any medium. Text seating request to: 505-690-3945. Limited seating.

Call the gallery at 850-729-2600 to reserve seating for the following workshops:
Dec 4, Christmas Card Illuminated Letter workshop – 10:30- 1 pm $75 includes all supplies. Create your own unique illuminated letter Christmas Card using ink, gold leaf and other quality calligraphy materials. Award winning artist, Elia Saxer instructor.
Dec 11, Stained Glass Mosaic Box Workshop- 10:30-2:30. $37.50 Includes all supplies. Stained glass expert Dulcie Scalf will help you create your own unique gift box. In this 4 hour workshop you will work stained glass and your choice of design including initials.
Dec 18, Open Air Art Day Christmas Sale- Noon – 3 pm. Come take advantage of sales and meet our artisans of the gallery. Special guest artisans will have tents and demonstrations set up outside. Food truck. Kids activities.

COMING IN JANUARY:
Book Signing – Eliza Scalia -01/08
Spoon Swipe & String Pull Acrylics- Debi Profeta- 01/15
Needle Felting- Jenn Dennis- 01/22
One Stroke Painting- Sheila Mahony- 01/29
(850) 729-2600
artfulthingsniceville.com
1087 East, E. John Sims Pkwy. in Niceville

Big Orange House Designs
NOVEMBER CLASSES:
27-Open Leather & Pearls. $21.30
30-Engineering Paper Circuits. $19.17
30-Play w/Clay. Make clay ornaments with potter Laurel. $42.80
DECEMBER CLASSES:
2- Paint Pour w/Ang. Part science – 100% FUN! Creative abstract. $39.90
3-Word Board Glass Art. Make a beautiful personalized CHRISTMAS PRESENT! $58.85
4-Open Studio Glass Art. $26.62
4-”Perdu” Leather & Pearls. $69.44
7-Dream “Catcher”. $21.80
7-Play w/ Clay. $42.80
9-Mommy & ME Scarf Dyeing. $16.25
14-Elves Workshop w/ Reiko! $26.60
16-Glass Art Crosses. $53.50
16-Girl’s Night Out Leather & Pearls. $69.55
17-Create ANGELS. Paint a wooden block and do glass overlay! $53.50
18-Mini Christmas Cookie Tray. $19.79
18-Elve’s Workshop w/ Reiko. ADULT & CHILD class-2 seats for each project! $32.80
bigorangehousedesigns.com
(850) 737-6193.
4652 Hwy. 20E, Pineapple Plaza, Bluewater Bay in Niceville

Estelle Studio & Gallery
November 27 and December 18.
Small Group Instruction: Individualized Art Lesson Group. 10am. 1 hour 30 minutes. $45.00
This session is for the more serious art student. This limited small class offers a more intimate self-paced learning environment. Estelle will guide and coach participants on completing their own beautiful masterpiece! Limited Space, Sign up soon! Current students have priority for future class sessions.
Private group classes and parties offered.
(850) 787-1020 | estellestudioandgallery@gmail.com
902 Hwy 20, Suite 106, Freeport, FL 32439

Loved One

sean dietrich w dogBy Sean Dietrich

Hi. This is your late loved one speaking. I don’t have long, so listen up because I have a lot I want to tell you.

First off, I get it.

Ever since I left this world you have missed me, and I know you’re bracing for the holidays without me. No matter what anyone says, this year’s festivities are going to be really tough.

In fact, let’s be honest, this festive season will probably suck pondwater. But then, Thanksgiving and Christmas are tough holidays for a lot of people. You’re not alone.

See, the misconception about the holidays is that they are one big party. That’s what every song on the radio claims. Each television commercial you see shows happy families clad in gaudy Old Navy sweaters, carving up poultry, smiling their perfect Hollywood teeth at the camera. But that’s not exactly reality.

In reality, fifty-eight percent of Americans admit to feeling severely depressed and anxious during November and December. In reality many folks will cry throughout the “most wonderful time of the year.”

Well, guess what? Nobody is crying up here in heaven. This place is unreal. There is, literally, too much beauty to take in. Way too much.

For starters—get this—time doesn’t even exist anymore. Which I’m still getting used to.
Right now, for all I know, the calendar year down on Earth could be 1728, 4045, 1991, or 12 BC. It really wouldn’t matter up here. This is a realm where there is no ticking clock, no schedule. Up here there is only this present moment. This. Here. Now. That’s all there has ever been. And there is real comfort in this.

I know this all seems hard to grasp, but if you were here you’d get it.

Also, for the first time I’m pain free. I feel like a teenager again in my body. You probably don’t realize how long I’ve lived with pain because I never talked about it, I kept my problems to myself because I was your loved one, and you needed me to be brave.
But pain is a devious thing. It creeps up on even the strongest person, little by little, bit by bit. Until pretty soon, pain becomes a central feature of life.

Sometimes my pain would get so bad it was all I thought about. No, I’m not saying that my life was miserable—far from it. I loved being on earth. It’s just that simply waking up each morning was getting exhausting.

But, you know what? Not anymore. In this new place, I am wholly and thoroughly happy.
But enough about me. I don’t have room to describe all the terrific things I’m experiencing, and you don’t need to hear them. Right now, you’re grieving, and what you need is a hug.
Which is why I’m writing to you. This is my hug to you. Because you’ve lost sight of me. And in fact, you’ve lost sight of several important things lately.

Death has a way of blinding us. It reorganizes the way you think, it changes you. You will never be the same after you lose someone. It messes with your inner physiology. It reorganizes you’re neurons.

But then, there’s one teensy little thing you’re forgetting:

I’m still around.

Yes, you read that correctly, I’m right here with you. No, you can’t see me. No, you can’t reach out and hold me. But did you know that one of the things I’m allowed to do as a heavenly being is hang out with you?

It’s true. I’m never far away. I’m in the room with you now, along with a big cloud of ancestors, saints, and witnesses. I’m shooting the breeze alongside you, watching you live your life, watching you raise your kids, watching your private moments of sorrow.

Here, in this new realm, I am in the perfect position to help you learn things. Which is what I vow to spend the rest of your earthly life doing, teaching you little lessons, lending you a hand when you least expect it, and desperately trying to make you smile. Actually, I’ve already been doing this stuff, you just don’t realize it.

What, you don’t believe me?

Well, wake up, pal. You know that tingle you get in your spine whenever you think of me? That’s me.

You know how, just yesterday, you had a beautiful memory when you were driving and it made you cry so hard that it actually felt good and you began to laugh through tears? Also me.

You know how sometimes when you’re all alone, preoccupied with something else, suddenly you get this faint feeling that someone is standing in the room with you? Hello? Me.

You’re not alone on this earth. You never were. You never will be. So during this holiday season, when cheerful families are getting together and making merry, and taking shots of eggnog, I’m going to be clinging to your shoulder, helping you muddle through somehow.

I’ll be making your spinal column tingle a lot, and I’ll be sending plenty of signs. Each of these signs—every single one—is code for “I love you.” So start paying attention to these hints.

Because this was one.

Has the Pandemic Accelerated Changes That Were Already Coming?

Maurice StouseBy Maurice Stouse, Financial Advisor and Branch Manager

Americans and American investors continue to be amazed and surprised at so many things that are taking place. Were we headed in this direction already and has the pandemic merely accelerated it? There is a shortage of labor. (We understand there are 10 million job openings and only 6 million looking for jobs). Was that already going to happen given the changes in population growth? Americans are retiring now more than ever before. The media are referring to this as “The Great Resignation.” American workers are also quitting their jobs (often to go to another job) more now than in recent memory. There is also a shortage of supplies: computer chips, Christmas and other holiday presents (toys, things), cars, parts, materials. There is a shortage of truck drivers. Now we are seeing and hearing there is a shortage in energy. A recent cover of The Economist called it “The Energy Crisis.” We haven’t seen a headline like that since the 1970s. This week we have learned, courtesy of CNBC, that this Fall saw the sharpest decline in college enrollments in the past 50 years…portending a future shortage in skilled workers? One might wonder: Just what is going on? We think there are a myriad of reasons why and we also anticipate there are things that investors might want to consider going forward.

First, as to labor, consider that the population is no longer growing, it is slowing or even declining. The fastest growing segment of the population is now those over 65. Second, consider the positive financial shape many Americans are reported to be in at this time: Checking and savings deposits have swelled to $3.5 trillion dollars — that in part has been helped by the massive Federal Reserve stimulus unleashed in the past 18 months. Real estate values have climbed, along with stock prices and several commodities…leading to increased wealth. If people feel more wealthy or financially secure, might they be retiring earlier?

Third, consider that inflation has increased and many are left wondering if that is permanent or getting worse. We believe that the levels of inflation we are now experiencing will be with us for a while. In response to the labor shortage, wages are up, but so are worker strikes and walkouts.

There are implications for investors. Inflation resistant and inflation resilient investments might be worth further review and adding to current allocations in those investments might be practical as well. Examples of those are energy, commodities, materials, industrials, financials and real estate.

Business leaders have been weighing on inflation: Jack Dorsey, who co- founded Twitter, announced this week that hyperinflation is here. On the other hand, Cathie Wood, CEO of ARK Invest, opines that we will soon be entering a period of sustained deflation. Those are pretty divergent views.

Fourth, the supply chain has been disrupted. This is leading to shortages from chips to energy and everything in between as demand for such goods is increasing. As the world emerges from the pandemic, both developed countries and emerging markets are accelerating their growth. There is a book, written by Darren Hardy called “The Compound Effect.” In it, he notes that as anything that compounds, (in this case economic growth), it can lead to a substantial result or change. In another book “The Tipping Point,” written by Malcolm Gladwell, it is pointed out that massive change comes about as the result of a lot of little things that add up. So, we conclude that economic growth, developing markets and demographic shifts are leading to increased demand for labor, materials and for energy – from all sources. In the meanwhile, concerning energy, there is considerable effort to lower carbon emissions which might be having an impact on exploration and production – eventually resulting in lower supplies. We understand cleaner energy could eventually fill the void but the amount of investment into cleaner energy sources would have to just about triple from where it is now to meet planned targets for carbon emissions and that is not currently happening. Coal has reemerged not only in demand, but in price as well as China and the developed world have increased coal consumption (it also has increased in the U.S., per S&P Global, and the EIA for the first time in seven years).

Looking again at Americans’ financial shape (on the average), balance sheets are at their strongest in decades. We have more money and assets but we owe less. This has also had an impact on those on the lower on the economic spectrum. The New York Times recently reported that the poverty rate in the U.S. has been cut in half in the past 18 months. That is attributable to government assistance as well as stimulus. No one expected this at the outset of the pandemic.

Finally, the most positive thing that has emerged is American productivity. It is at one of the highest rates in history. That is the silver lining. Productivity means that more goods and services are produced per unit of input and this has continued to grow. The question is will price and wage inflation eventually jeopardize that? Maintaining and growing productivity is key to economic growth and ultimately the profitability of companies and that has direct input on stock prices.

So, what might investors want to consider right now? We feel that productivity, maintaining it, and actually growing it will be very critical going forward. How might America’s producers and service providers accomplish that? We think it means acceleration in the use and implementation of automation and artificial intelligence. Investors might do well to look at companies, funds and exchange traded funds that focus on those very things. Cloud computing would be in the same group. The cloud is one of the fastest growing innovations in the world. Almost all of our daily activities interact with the cloud directly and indirectly. With so much being stored and relied upon by way of the cloud, investors can look at companies and funds in those areas as well. What is the cloud? Simply put: the “cloud” is made up of data centers. Note: The growth in energy consumption from these large data centers is quite significant (see “The Atlas of AI” by Kate Crawford). Not just in America, but around the world as well. In other words, it takes massive amounts of electricity to power and run the cloud – which means the demand for energy won’t be easing up anytime soon. Another reason for investors to consider increasing their energy allocations.
Electricity is produced by sources of nuclear, hydro, solar, wind, natural gas (currently 40%) and coal. The increased demands for electricity – whether from data centers (the cloud), mining crypto currency, supply or supply change problems or the upcoming winter weather are driving prices up. Natural gas at this writing has doubled year to date. Raymond James (October 26, 2021 Daily Energy Update by John Freeman, Pavel Molchanov, Justin Jenkins and J.R. Weston) wrote this week that “numerous weather forecast models increased their probability of a materially colder 2021, 2022 winter, sending natural gas prices surging”.**

At The First Wealth Management, we encourage investors to look to make change over time, versus overnight. That ongoing monitoring and vigilance over one’s financial matters is critical to achieving goals. Lastly, having a guaranteed or reliable source of income (pension, annuity, SSI) supplemented with a retirement income strategy are essential elements of living and sustaining a standard of living when no longer in the workforce.
** A full copy of the report is available upon request.

The First Wealth Management is located at First Florida Bank, a division of the First, A National Banking Association, 2000 98 Palms Blvd, Destin, FL 32541 with branch offices in Niceville, Mary Esther, Miramar Beach, Freeport, and Panama City. Phone 850.654.8124.
Raymond James advisors do not offer tax advice. Please see your tax professionals. Email: Maurice.stouse@raymondjames.com.Securities offered through Raymond James Financial Services, Inc. Member FINRA/SIPC, and are not insured by bank insurance, the FDIC, or any other government agency, are not deposits or obligations of the bank, are not guaranteed by the bank, and are subject to risks, including the possible loss of principal. Investment Advisory Services are offered through Raymond James Financial Services Advisors, Inc.

The First Wealth Management First Florida Bank, and The First, A National Banking Association are not registered broker/dealers and are independent of Raymond James Financial Services.

Views expressed are the current opinion of the author, not necessarily those of RJFS or Raymond James, and are subject to change without notice. Information provided is general in nature and is not a complete statement of all information necessary for making an investment decision and is not a recommendation or a solicitation to buy or sell any security. Past performance is not indicative of future results.

Investing involves risk and you may incur a profit or loss regardless of strategy selected, including diversification and asset allocation. Investors should consult their investment professional prior to making an investment decision.

Investing in the energy sector involves special risks, including the potential adverse effects of state and federal regulation and may not be suitable for all investors.

Treasury Inflation Protection Securities, or TIPS, adjust the invested principal base by the CPI-U at a semiannual rate. Rate of inflation is based on the CPI-U, which has a three-month lag. Investing within specific sectors, or in small and mid-size companies, involves unique, additional risks. Those risks include limited diversification, regulatory risks, limited liquidity, and lack of operating history.

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Journey Bravely: Finding Freedom from People Pleasing

By Stephenie Craig, Journey Bravely

You cook, you travel, you buy, you get the outfits, you smile, you take pretty pictures. You hope your family behaves well. You clean, you decorate, you do your best to get along. You work so hard and hope people are proud of you, like you, think you’re enough. Then the end of the holiday season arrives, often leaving you feeling exhausted, disappointed and asking yourself, “Why am I so tired and what’s missing from this picture?”

You expect time with family and friends during holidays to be fun and, instead, your people pleasing feels sad, critical and like no matter what you did for others, it wasn’t enough. People pleasing is the practice of seeking approval from others by doing what you think they want you to do. People pleasing tricks you into believing you will feel good about yourself if you can just make the next person happy. Sometimes people pleasing feels like it’s really working for you. You might receive some praise and approval at times inviting you to believe doing what others want you to do is the pathway to fulfillment. Eventually, you can’t keep everyone happy and something falls through the cracks resulting in disappointment, criticism and feelings of failure.

The uncomfortable and wonderful truth is you are not capable of making everyone happy and you can stop trying to get their approval. Some people will not be pleased and there will always be someone who doesn’t like your choices. Your purpose was never pleasing others. Your purpose is to be uniquely you, bringing your strengths, love and authentic self to your life, relationships and community. People pleasing makes false promises of fulfillment and leaves you feeling empty, bitter and lonely. So, how are you supposed to let it go and find joy in who you really are?

5 Ways to Begin Letting Go of People Pleasing as Identity

1. Use resentment as a red flag. People pleasing leads to resentment. You work hard to make others happy and when they aren’t, you find yourself bitter and wondering why you worked hard for someone so ungrateful. Resentment can be your guide to noticing when you have your sense of self wrapped up in pleasing others.

2. Consider both what you need and what will benefit others. Instead of immediately trying to anticipate what will make others happy with you, slow down. Ask yourself what will show healthy love and kindness toward others with boundaries. Ask yourself what you want, what you need, and what is healthy for you. Find the overlap in what feels both authentically loving, kind, and healthy for others and yourself.

3. Make healthy decisions even if you believe someone else will be unhappy about it. Even if you’ve considered what is loving and healthy for the other and yourself, sometimes the other wants you to do what is only good for them. Proceeding to make the healthy decision and setting a boundary with kindness is the healthy path forward for any relationship. “Mom, I understand you’d like for us to be at your house all of Thanksgiving Day. However, it is important to us to be at our house in the morning. We will be happy to join you in the afternoon at your house.”

4. Work through your discomfort when someone is disappointed by your decision. Maybe they invite you to feel guilty, maybe they give you the silent treatment, maybe they say mean things. It will feel like you can’t survive this, but I promise, you can. Sit through the discomfort and you will find the sun will still rise and set. People who want to respect you and their relationship with you, will learn to respect you when you make decisions that displease them.

5. Enjoy being more truly yourself. When you stop seeking unhealthy approval from others, you have more space to understand who you are, what creates joy for you, and ways you can bring genuine love and joy to others. Find confidence in your decisions and enjoy the authentic space you’ve created to be you and to feel like you’re enough.

Letting go of deeply ingrained habits requires grace, patience, and time. When you commit to the long work of change, the resulting freedom is worth your commitment and effort. As you walk through letting go of people pleasing and other life patterns that have left you feeling exhausted, remember to connect with us at journeybravely.com for support along your journey.

2021 Jingle Bell Jog: 7th Group Special Forces Dec. 4

Saturday, Dec. 4, 2021 Crestview | 8 a.m. Start
2021 marks the 43th year the Special Forces Association, Chapter 7 has held its annual Jingle Bell Jog 10k/5k running race. This year also marks the 10th year the event will be held in Northwest Florida. 100 percent of the proceeds are used by our organization to support the families of the 7th Special Forces Group (Airborne), with particular emphasis on providing support to our fallen Soldiers who made the ultimate sacrifice.

Early Registration through Dec. 1 is 5K: $30.99 and 10K: $35.99.

Late Registration from Dec. 1 through Dec 4 is 5K: $35.99 and 10K: $40.99.

​The Kid’s Fun Run is $5 for pre-registration and $10 day of registration. (Shirt not included with Fun Run registration.)

Register online at sfa7jog.itsyourrace.com until race start.

Military Early Packet Pickup-Thursday, Dec. 2, at the Subway on the 7th Special Forces Group (A) compound from 10 a.m. – 1 p.m. (Military ID required to access the compound.)

Everyone Else Packet Pickup-Friday, Dec. 3 from 3-6 p.m. at Red 7 Tees in Crestview.
We highly encourage you to pick up your packet early to avoid long lines on race day.
Day of Race Packet Pickup will open at 6:30 a.m.

If you wish to volunteer for the race, visit: https://signup.com/go/YOFLSVM

In addition to the 5k and 10k, there will be a Kid’s 1/2 Mile Fun Run immediately after the completion of the 5k/10k. Kid’s must be pre-registered for this event.
Virtual Run

If you can’t join in person, run anytime between registering and Dec 4th and then upload your results at sfa7jog.itsyourrace.com. You can find full details at https://www.sfa7jog.com.

Awards
10K Finishers ALL get a Jingle Bell Jog Finisher’s Medal!

5K Run: For Males and Females: 1st-3rd overall. Masters and Grand Masters; Age groups 1st-3rd- 14 & Under, 15-19, 20-24, 25-29,30-34, 35-39, 40-44, 45-49, 50-54, 55-59, 60-64, 65-69 and 70 & Over

10K Run: Overall 1st-5th male/female. Masters and Grand Masters for males and females.​
Kid’s Fun Run: Every finisher gets a custom dog tag medal! (limit 100 participants)
There is not a walk division. ALL awards are based on gun time. So, if you are in the hunt for an award, start near the front.

The Start/Finish will be at the Okaloosa County Veterans Memorial at the corner of Main St. and Beech Ave. (Okaloosa County Court House) in Crestview. ALL awards are based on gun time. So, if you are in the hunt for an award, start near the front. 5K runners will do one loop; 10K runners will do 2 loops. Due to new insurance restrictions, dogs are NOT allowed in or at the race. Strollers ARE allowed, but we ask that you please start at the back of the race to lessen the risk of accidents at the start.

Members of the 7th Special Forces Group are retired and active duty Green Berets, soldiers, family members and community leaders who support the soldiers and family members of the 7th Special Forces Group (Airborne). It is an all-volunteer veterans’ organization made up exclusively of personnel who have either earned the coveted Green Beret or have contributed to the Green Berets’ mission in a meaningful way. All donations will be earmarked to support the 7th Special Forces Group warfighters. In the last nine years since moving to Okaloosa County, over $350,000 has been distributed to support soldiers, families and activities.

6th Annual Niceville Track and Field Ugly Sweater 5k Run/Walk & 1 Mile Fun Run
Saturday, Dec. 11 | 8-10 a.m. | Hurricane Grill & Wings | Niceville
http://runsignup.com/race/fl/nicevilleuglysweater

‘Tis the season to be tacky!!! Put on your worst apparel for the 6th Annual Niceville Ugly Sweater Run/Walk starting and finishing at Hurricane Grill and Wings in Bluewater Bay.
The 5K Run & Walk is open to all ages and will begin at 8 a.m.; a one-mile fun run for children 12 & under will begin at 8:30 a.m.

Then join for fun, music and tackiness. Proceeds benefit the Niceville High School Track & Field program.

Online registration closes at noon, Friday Dec. 10. Day of Registration will begin at 6 a.m. Day of Registration cost is $40. The children’s 1-Mile Fun Run is $20 and includes a custom, high quality medal and T-shirt for all participants. Official timing will be provided for both the 5k and the 1-Mile kids run. Medals will be awarded for top finishers in age groups. T-shirt sizes guaranteed for those who register online by Dec. 1. Limited quantities and sizes are available for those who register after Dec. 2. A limited quantity of Finisher’s medals are available for purchase when you register online.

Local Dining, Drinks, Coffee and Holidays! December 2021

Brothers Kitchen
Brothers Kitchen is a casual, Southern-style restaurant, a place where you can get all your comfort food favorites. Blue Plate Specials are featured each day—meaning you choose one meat and two of many vegetable options from the daily list. And there’s so many homestyle choices such as Country Fried Steak, Pork Bar-B-Que or Smoked Chicken Breast. Or pair super fresh salads, turnip greens, fried okra, potato wedges or mac ‘n cheese with the famous Boss Burger. Nightly specials vary each evening, but can include grilled or fried fish, shrimp & grits, pasta dishes or steak specials including Brothers Top Sirloin, Delmonico, Ribeye and Queen’s Filet Mignon. Come on by and “taste” for yourself! Or checkout the Brothers Kitchen Facebook page for the daily specials and call, stop in or order ahead. Pre-order for the weekend 24 hours in advance: Smoked whole pork butt, full or half racks, barbecue smoked meatloaf, smoked wings all slow-smoked on the Big Green Egg. And don’t forget the sides! For Christmas, Brothers Kitchen is offering special options for Pre-Order Pickup.

Call 850-842-2687 to place your order! All the Time: Dine In, Curbside, Pickup, Delivery, Outside Dining
Open Monday – Saturday, 11 a.m. – 9 p.m. Closed Sunday.
(850) 842-2687
4538 E. Hwy. 20, Niceville
Facebook @LoveBrothersKitchen

JoJo’s Coffee and Goodness
Owner and operator Angela “JoJo” Stevenson invites you to enter a cafe and relaxed coffee shop atmosphere for a daily dose of “goodness.” Her dream team bakes fresh breakfast and lunch daily—Tuesday-Saturday. Feel free to work on site (free WiFi) or meet up with friends or family. Stop in for Cinnamon Rolls; Scones: Cranberry Orange, Chocolate Caramel and Cheddar Thyme; Strawberry Coffee Cake; Cranberry Orange Muffins; Red Velvet Cookies; Brownies with Espresso Ganache or Caramelitas! Try a Breakfast Special with a piece of Quiche or Kolache-Hashbrown Casserole. Breakfast Burritos are rolled and ready daily! Choose from Andouille, Bacon, Chorizo or Veggie. Or tantalize your taste buds with a made-to-order Breakfast Sandwich on Croissants or Bagel with two eggs and cheese and then choose if you want to add Jojo’s homemade smoked jalapeño beef bologna, bacon, house smoked barbecue or ham! Cinnamon Rolls and Kaloches still hold the top spot for SELL OUTS! Stop in for featured Muffins, Coffee Cake or Pound Cake which go great with Maple Cinnamon Latte or Caramel Macchiato!

Every day is a day for freshly Roasted Coffee and GREAT DOSES OF GOODNESS! Order ahead and pick up some for the office, a gathering or your next meeting! Or pick up some for Christmas or New Year’s breakfast to accompany your Holiday offerings! Tickets are available for Elve’s Workshop with Reiko on Dec. 18th! Book online at bigorangehousedesigns.com.

Hours 7:30 a.m. – 2 p.m. Tuesday – Saturday
(850) 737-6194
4652 Hwy. 20 East, Niceville
bigorangehousedesigns.com

LJ Schooners Dockside Restaurant
Welcome to LJ Schooners Dockside Restaurant located at the spectacular Bluewater Bay Marina Complex. The restaurant is named after “LJ Schooner” (the LJ is for Lazy Jack) who was a cherished four-legged icon on Bluewater Bay Marina docks. The open air Oyster Bar and restaurant is open to serve you! Almost all seats offer a magnificent view of the water,
marina and unparalleled sunset with, of course, oysters and a delicious varied menu with dinner specials such as Blackened Mahi and grilled shrimp with hollandaise, served over cheese grits! Join L.J. Schooners for Sunday Brunch, 9 a.m. – 1 p.m. and drink your bottomless Mimosas for $10! Adults $13.95; Children 7-12 $4.50; Children under age 6 free. LJ Schooners’ 4th Annual Santa Paddle Parade is back Sat. Dec. 18, Noon, at Bluewater Bay Marina. Then stay for Bluewater Bay Marina’s Annual Christmas Boat Parade Sat., Dec. 18 at 5:30 p.m. After the Boat Parade, LJ Schooners is throwing a Christmas Party with DJ Chris Saylor, 6-10 p.m. and an ugly sweater contest at 9 p.m. For more information, email: frontdesk@bwb-marina.com. Disco the night away at the rockin’ New Year’s Eve party at LJ Schooners and Diamond Dan DJ! Dinner specials will run from 5–9 p.m.

Call to order take-out and pick-up in the L.J. Schooners Oyster Bar or call when you arrive for curbside pick-up.
Dine-in, Pick-up, To-Go
Open Wed.–Sat. 11 a.m. – 9 p.m., Sun. 9 a.m. – 4 p.m.
(850) 897-6400
290 Yacht Club Dr., Unit 200, Niceville
bluewaterbaymarina.com/schooners

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